Tips to get lucky @ love

Category: Advice

Just woke up … then I amazed with this tips post by Kathryn Lord whereby she is the romance coach and author, met her now husband Drew online. Out of the dating world for years, Kathryn conquered her fears, found her perfect mate and built a solid relationship.

love is in the air…. menj & awinsjclarke

These are those tips that I should suggest to him for our relationship to always be bloom:

1.Know what you want.
Your looks change and fade, character does not. While a certain amount of “chemistry” is nice, don’t rely solely on lust. What qualities are you looking for in a mate?

2.Get clear about what you don’t want.
Knowing what you really can’t tolerate in a partner is important. Make a list of your “don’t wants” and then cut it down to the 10 most important. Any more than that and you’ll be too picky.

3.Live your life.
Once you know clearly what you want (and don’t want) in a relationship, shift your focus to living your life. You’ll find that you start noticing those who might fit, and passing by those who don’t.

4.See the big picture.
Don’t try so hard that you miss the obvious. If you are great at focusing, step back now and then and look at the big picture. Work on having a playful, whimsical attitude towards life.

5.Get out of the house.
Cultivate opportunities to expand your social circle and meet new people expand your social circle and meet new people. Vary our routine. Have you thought of entertaining to enlarge your social circle? As what the author you should throw a party or do some social work in order to get socialize. What about going to religious club or activities that can gain our knowledge in religious field as well as to get better point of views from the groups of expertise…. that much better!

6.Open your eyes and your attitude.
Lucky people notice, create and maximize chance opportunities. Chat with other shoppers while you are waiting in line. Be ready with a “calling card” — a personal business-type card with basic contact information.

7.Get curious.
Don’t content yourself with the obvious. Ask questions. Wonder why. Find answers.

8.
Try something new.
The best way to have things stay the same is to never do anything different. Vary your daily routine, just to keep yourself awake. Shake yourself up and notice what happens. Keep yourself open to chance opportunities, and then take advantage of them.
p.s yeah , ive tried it .. and its blogging for me.

9.Expect good luck.
Monitor your self-talk for negative messages that interfere with luck. Replace the negative thoughts with positives. Surround yourself with examples of lucky people.

10.Learn from bad luck. Take steps to prevent more bad luck from what you have learned, then let the “bad” go. Don’t dwell on or rehash the bad experience. Look for the positive elements.

Take your time to know your partner, and try to tolerate with his weaknesses and compliments to his best achievements.
People are not perfect, taken into consideration that im also no perfect lady but still I try my best to improve myself from time to time and experiences that ive gained throughout my 25 years and 9 months….going to be 26 .. just hate it … to be old! but young @ heart!

see ya! cute kitten

15 Jun

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